Whenever I try to help someone get themselves out of debt and give themselves a raise with their own income, I give them the benefit of the doubt. I wonder to myself whether or not the person I am helping truly cares, or if they are truly willing to pick themselves up by the bootstraps and get into the tough, rigorous trenches of the daily grind to beat debt. Most times people seem interested, but they give up. They are not willing to fight like I did. I can only help people who are willing to help themselves. We need fighters, not vampires dependent on you. Sooner or later, you will learn that you can only depend on yourself.